Anonymity a Family Memoir Author:Susan Bergman "It was not until our father died that we found out about his other life. Then our other lives began." A family memoir. When Don Heche died of AIDS in 1983 at the age of 45, one of the earliest casualties of the epidemic, he left behind a family stunned not only by his loss but by the revelation that for years he had led a secret homosexua... more »l life. Determined to reexamine the family?s self-image in the light of this new awareness, writer Susan Bergman sought out her father?s friends and companions and delved back into family history, looking for the telltale fault lines in what had seemed an all-American story. Author Ron Hansen called her wise, passionate, beautifully written book ?the finest portrayal of fear and hiddenness in families that I have ever read.?« less