Jennifer P. (jenners) reviewed Creating a Charmed Life : Sensible, Spiritual Secrets Every Busy Woman Should Know on + 121 more book reviews
Helpful Score: 2
Book Overview
This compact book is filled with practical and sensible advice for women (and men!) who would like to create a charmed life, which the author characterizes as unhurried, effortless and filled with grace and poise. The subtitle of the book is "Sensible, Spiritual Secrets Every Busy Woman Should Know." The "secrets" are truly sensibleâthere isn't anything earth-shattering here. It is common-sense stuff that we all know but probably never take the time to remember or practice.
The book presents 75 different secretsâwith each covered in a short page or two. Some of the secrets include: Invite Adventure, Trust Your Instincts, Conserve Your Energy, Don't Cry Over Spilled Milk, Acknowledge All Blessings, Watch Your Words and so forth. Each secret is described succinctly, with an example or two of why this secret is an important part of creating a charmed life. The author often provides down-to-earth ways to implement the secret in your life, and the end of the book includes a list of resources if you want to read more about a particular topic. For example, for Secret 18 (Let Your Menus Change with the Season), the author provides information on a seasonal recipe book
The book is an easy read. However, implementing the secrets in your own life is the challenge. My advice would be to read the entire book and then choose two or three of the secrets that you need to work on the most in your life. Once you have successfully incorporated those secrets into your life, then choose a few more to work on. I suspect that before long, you truly will be living a charmed life.
My Thoughts
As I was reading, I kept marking page after page after page of things I thought I needed to work on. In the end, there were about 9 secrets that I identified as top priority for me. I'm a big believer that we can always be improving our lives and ways of thinking, and I thought this book was a wonderful tool for helping me focus on areas that need attention in my life. I can't imagine any person not finding at least one or two secrets that they would be able to use.
I like that the secrets are not too "New Agey" or gimmicky. The author is very practical, and the advice she gives is reasonable and doable. As I mentioned, I don't think any of what she is saying is earth-shattering. It is just that it is so easy to forget these things when we rush around in our daily lives. I think using this book to remind you of these important lessons is why it is so valuable. I plan on leaving this book by my bedside and reviewing the secrets I am working on each morning and evening so that I keep them front and center in my life until they become truly integrated into my everyday actions. (I think this is how the book is intended to be usedâhence the compact and attractive design!)
But perhaps the best way to illustrate the value of the book is by sharing an excerpt from one of the secrets. Here is a bit of Secret 16: Live Your Life In Chapters. (I thought this would be particularly apt for all us book lovers!)
Somehow the notion cropped up that we'd better do everything today. The idea took hold, and now almost everybody believes it. This is why so many women are running nonstop just to keep up. In a frantic attempt to realize their dreams, the dreams retreat and the frantic feeling takes hold.
A charmed life is different, because you live it in chapters, the way you would read a long novel. When you're engrossed in a story, nothing exists except what is happening now. Even though chapter 10 is laying the foundation for chapter 11, the book only makes sense one chapter at a time.
When you live your life this wayâfocusing on one chapter now, another laterâyou can devote more unfettered attention to what is yours to do at this time of your life, a time that will never come again. Look at the chapter you're now living: You may be in the college chapter, the crummy-first-job chapter, the home-with-small-kids chapter, or the second-career chapter. Circumstances can certainly make things more complicated and less clear-cut than these examples, but if you can keep in mind the main point of your present life chapter, you can give it priority.
Chapter living is the rational way to "have it all," because when you live this way, you're not expecting to have it all at once. Its essence is paying close attention to the current chapter and not worrying about what you may be missing from prior or future ones. Their times are past, or yet to come.
The key is letting go of the compulsion to pursue every possible opportunity right nowâeven if pursuing it means a crowded life, an alienated family, or a hospital stay for exhaustion. That old saying about opportunity knocking once is as archaic as the flat-earth theory and as patently untrue. Opportunity knocks all the timeâand it rings your doorbell, calls you up, and sends you e-mails.
There is more to this secret, but I think this excerpt gives you a good idea of the tone of the book and the type of advice you'll find within its pages.
My Final Recommendation
This is a gem of a book, and I would highly recommend it to anyone who is open to making changes in their life. You'll find practical advice on achieving emotional and spiritual growth in your life, and the attractive format lets you proceed at your own pace, working on your own issues as you feel ready and able. I won't be giving away my copy as it needs to stay with me! Do yourself a favor and get a copy for yourself today!
This compact book is filled with practical and sensible advice for women (and men!) who would like to create a charmed life, which the author characterizes as unhurried, effortless and filled with grace and poise. The subtitle of the book is "Sensible, Spiritual Secrets Every Busy Woman Should Know." The "secrets" are truly sensibleâthere isn't anything earth-shattering here. It is common-sense stuff that we all know but probably never take the time to remember or practice.
The book presents 75 different secretsâwith each covered in a short page or two. Some of the secrets include: Invite Adventure, Trust Your Instincts, Conserve Your Energy, Don't Cry Over Spilled Milk, Acknowledge All Blessings, Watch Your Words and so forth. Each secret is described succinctly, with an example or two of why this secret is an important part of creating a charmed life. The author often provides down-to-earth ways to implement the secret in your life, and the end of the book includes a list of resources if you want to read more about a particular topic. For example, for Secret 18 (Let Your Menus Change with the Season), the author provides information on a seasonal recipe book
The book is an easy read. However, implementing the secrets in your own life is the challenge. My advice would be to read the entire book and then choose two or three of the secrets that you need to work on the most in your life. Once you have successfully incorporated those secrets into your life, then choose a few more to work on. I suspect that before long, you truly will be living a charmed life.
My Thoughts
As I was reading, I kept marking page after page after page of things I thought I needed to work on. In the end, there were about 9 secrets that I identified as top priority for me. I'm a big believer that we can always be improving our lives and ways of thinking, and I thought this book was a wonderful tool for helping me focus on areas that need attention in my life. I can't imagine any person not finding at least one or two secrets that they would be able to use.
I like that the secrets are not too "New Agey" or gimmicky. The author is very practical, and the advice she gives is reasonable and doable. As I mentioned, I don't think any of what she is saying is earth-shattering. It is just that it is so easy to forget these things when we rush around in our daily lives. I think using this book to remind you of these important lessons is why it is so valuable. I plan on leaving this book by my bedside and reviewing the secrets I am working on each morning and evening so that I keep them front and center in my life until they become truly integrated into my everyday actions. (I think this is how the book is intended to be usedâhence the compact and attractive design!)
But perhaps the best way to illustrate the value of the book is by sharing an excerpt from one of the secrets. Here is a bit of Secret 16: Live Your Life In Chapters. (I thought this would be particularly apt for all us book lovers!)
Somehow the notion cropped up that we'd better do everything today. The idea took hold, and now almost everybody believes it. This is why so many women are running nonstop just to keep up. In a frantic attempt to realize their dreams, the dreams retreat and the frantic feeling takes hold.
A charmed life is different, because you live it in chapters, the way you would read a long novel. When you're engrossed in a story, nothing exists except what is happening now. Even though chapter 10 is laying the foundation for chapter 11, the book only makes sense one chapter at a time.
When you live your life this wayâfocusing on one chapter now, another laterâyou can devote more unfettered attention to what is yours to do at this time of your life, a time that will never come again. Look at the chapter you're now living: You may be in the college chapter, the crummy-first-job chapter, the home-with-small-kids chapter, or the second-career chapter. Circumstances can certainly make things more complicated and less clear-cut than these examples, but if you can keep in mind the main point of your present life chapter, you can give it priority.
Chapter living is the rational way to "have it all," because when you live this way, you're not expecting to have it all at once. Its essence is paying close attention to the current chapter and not worrying about what you may be missing from prior or future ones. Their times are past, or yet to come.
The key is letting go of the compulsion to pursue every possible opportunity right nowâeven if pursuing it means a crowded life, an alienated family, or a hospital stay for exhaustion. That old saying about opportunity knocking once is as archaic as the flat-earth theory and as patently untrue. Opportunity knocks all the timeâand it rings your doorbell, calls you up, and sends you e-mails.
There is more to this secret, but I think this excerpt gives you a good idea of the tone of the book and the type of advice you'll find within its pages.
My Final Recommendation
This is a gem of a book, and I would highly recommend it to anyone who is open to making changes in their life. You'll find practical advice on achieving emotional and spiritual growth in your life, and the attractive format lets you proceed at your own pace, working on your own issues as you feel ready and able. I won't be giving away my copy as it needs to stay with me! Do yourself a favor and get a copy for yourself today!
Rosemary A. (pilgrim) reviewed Creating a Charmed Life : Sensible, Spiritual Secrets Every Busy Woman Should Know on + 67 more book reviews
Helpful Score: 1
I love this book. It is encouraging, inspiring and just the kind of book to keep on your night stand and read an chapter when you need a hug. I have given copies to my close friends and they also would not give this "best friend" up. It is like your mom, whispering in your ear, giving you the courage and determination that is so needed as youi get through the day.
I highly recommend this book.
I highly recommend this book.
Charlene (ATraveler) -
Helpful Score: 1
Lovely little book written for women about how to have a 'charmed' life. Worth the read. An number of ideas that will stick with you afterwards as well as a positive perspective to develop and improve ones self-esteem.
