Helpful Score: 8
This book was not what I expected. As a lover of animals, pets, and books on the topic, I guess I wasn't expecting this book to be so... philisophical??? Although still a great read, I was looking for something lighter, more like "Marley" or "Dewey". I also feel as though it was hard to follow the timeline, as the author jumped around alot. Definately a good book, but not one of my favorite furry stories.
Helpful Score: 7
Not a typical memoir or a typical dog book - Mark Doty is a poet by profession and so his memoir about the loss of his partner and the dogs that helped him through it is infused with poetry by Emily Dickinson and others. The memoir also covers the events of 9/11 by someone who was in New York at the time. Doty reflects on life and death, the difference between despair and depression, and more. You will love his dogs, Arden and Beau, and in the end you will cry too. It was an excellent, and thought provoking read.
Helpful Score: 7
Mark Doty is a professor and has published books of poetry and non-fiction prose. This is a memoir of his life with Beau, a golden retriever he adopted from an animal shelter to be a companion for his dying partner, Wally. The two already owned another dog, Arden.
He writes about how the dogs helped him through his darkest days after the death of Wally and as he moved on to a new relationship with Paul, as well as the lessons he learned from them.
This was a book for my book club, so it's definitely something I wouldn't have chosen to read on my own. I enjoyed parts of the book but I felt like he kind of bounced around in time. He would be talking about what was happening at that point and bring up something that would happen in the future. For me, that made parts of the story rather jerky.
He also incorporated a lot of Emily Dickinson's poetry. I'm not a poetry fan and have very little knowledge of the genre. Maybe I would have enjoyed these segments more if I was more familiar with Dickson and other poets or just enjoyed poetry more.
There were a couple points in the story where I just found the author to be annoying. One was when he, Paul, their two cats and the two dogs move to live in Iowa City while he works for a semester (or two) at the University of Iowa. The University helps him to find temporary housing and in doing so, tells him he needs to lie to the person he will be renting the home from and say he has a small dog. He's not comfortable with this, but the person at the University assures him this is the only way she will be able to secure him housing that will allow all the pets.
The owner is living someone else during this time, so they are moving into a furnished home and the owner has some fairly explicit directions about how she would like things maintained so the animal doesn't (or should we say "animals don't") damage anything. The author belittles the owners desire to maintain and care for her furnishings because they aren't all that valuable and says they are lower quality that Ikea. As if only high-end and expensive furnishings should be maintained. At this point, he's already written about how he's felt suicidal at times and wants the reader to feel some empathy for him, but he can't come up with empathy for someone who may have purchased the best furnishings for their home that they can and understand why they would want to return home to find these items still in good condition.
The other incident that sticks out takes place in New York. Another dog is waiting outside a store for its owner and comes up to Beau and the two are doing the doggy get-to-know-you routine when the female owner comes out and, in a tone that the author interprets, as snippy, orders her dog to come along. He attributes this to the woman thinking that he (a gay man) is looking to hit on her or that she doesn't want her dog to socialize. It never crosses his mind that the women knows he's gay so doesn't see this as him hitting on her and that she's just in a hurry to get home. Maybe she has a deathly ill parent at home or a sick child. Perhaps she was just diagnosed with a terminal illness. Maybe she's just having a bad day and wants to get home and take a bath. But those options aren't presented -- it's purely about the person not wanting to be around him or his dog.
It's not a bad book. Perhaps a dog owner would like it better.
He writes about how the dogs helped him through his darkest days after the death of Wally and as he moved on to a new relationship with Paul, as well as the lessons he learned from them.
This was a book for my book club, so it's definitely something I wouldn't have chosen to read on my own. I enjoyed parts of the book but I felt like he kind of bounced around in time. He would be talking about what was happening at that point and bring up something that would happen in the future. For me, that made parts of the story rather jerky.
He also incorporated a lot of Emily Dickinson's poetry. I'm not a poetry fan and have very little knowledge of the genre. Maybe I would have enjoyed these segments more if I was more familiar with Dickson and other poets or just enjoyed poetry more.
There were a couple points in the story where I just found the author to be annoying. One was when he, Paul, their two cats and the two dogs move to live in Iowa City while he works for a semester (or two) at the University of Iowa. The University helps him to find temporary housing and in doing so, tells him he needs to lie to the person he will be renting the home from and say he has a small dog. He's not comfortable with this, but the person at the University assures him this is the only way she will be able to secure him housing that will allow all the pets.
The owner is living someone else during this time, so they are moving into a furnished home and the owner has some fairly explicit directions about how she would like things maintained so the animal doesn't (or should we say "animals don't") damage anything. The author belittles the owners desire to maintain and care for her furnishings because they aren't all that valuable and says they are lower quality that Ikea. As if only high-end and expensive furnishings should be maintained. At this point, he's already written about how he's felt suicidal at times and wants the reader to feel some empathy for him, but he can't come up with empathy for someone who may have purchased the best furnishings for their home that they can and understand why they would want to return home to find these items still in good condition.
The other incident that sticks out takes place in New York. Another dog is waiting outside a store for its owner and comes up to Beau and the two are doing the doggy get-to-know-you routine when the female owner comes out and, in a tone that the author interprets, as snippy, orders her dog to come along. He attributes this to the woman thinking that he (a gay man) is looking to hit on her or that she doesn't want her dog to socialize. It never crosses his mind that the women knows he's gay so doesn't see this as him hitting on her and that she's just in a hurry to get home. Maybe she has a deathly ill parent at home or a sick child. Perhaps she was just diagnosed with a terminal illness. Maybe she's just having a bad day and wants to get home and take a bath. But those options aren't presented -- it's purely about the person not wanting to be around him or his dog.
It's not a bad book. Perhaps a dog owner would like it better.
Helpful Score: 5
i found this book to be beautiful, the way Doty writes is like poetry, it is a moving, touching story and one that every dog owner can (should) be able to relate to. losing a dog is like losing a friend, and it is a painful time however this book is not all about tears and sorrow, it is a celebration of his dog's lives, which is beautiful.
Helpful Score: 4
This is a very moving story about a man's close relationship and appreciateion of his dogs. The writing is very beautiful, funny at times, and makes you think.
Helpful Score: 2
From the acclaimed poet and memoirist Mark Doty, comes the story of his life with his two canine companions, Arden and Beau, in Dog Years.
When Mark Doty decides to adopt a dog to keep his dying partner company, he brings home a large golden retriever named Beau to join the black retriever named Arden already at home. In the face of tragedy, these two dogs become close companions as they help to heal him at a profoundly dark period in his life. A Washington Post Book World Best Book of the Year, winner of the Israel Fishman-Stonewall Book Award for Nonfiction, and nominated for a Lambda Literary Award, Dog Years is a profound reflection on the lessons that animals can teach us about living, love, and loss.
--from the HarperCollins website
When Mark Doty decides to adopt a dog to keep his dying partner company, he brings home a large golden retriever named Beau to join the black retriever named Arden already at home. In the face of tragedy, these two dogs become close companions as they help to heal him at a profoundly dark period in his life. A Washington Post Book World Best Book of the Year, winner of the Israel Fishman-Stonewall Book Award for Nonfiction, and nominated for a Lambda Literary Award, Dog Years is a profound reflection on the lessons that animals can teach us about living, love, and loss.
--from the HarperCollins website
Helpful Score: 2
wonderful book.
Makes you realize how special dogs really are.
Makes you realize how special dogs really are.
Helpful Score: 1
LOVED this book and I will now be searching out Mark Doty's books because his writing is so beautiful. And his writings about his dogs - lovely, heartbreaking.
Helpful Score: 1
Simply the WORST dog story EVER! Not much about the dog. Pretentious, long winded...could not bring myself to finish it.
the back of this book says it's not a dark book. the back of this book is wrong. this book was horrendously depressing. three deaths in the span of 216 pages is just more than any person should have to read. the language was nice and lyrical without being overdone (the guy's a poet, apparently), but HOLY DEPRESSING.
A good book about loss and what having dogs to care for adds to life. Mr. Doty has a dog that he is told is headed for death. He goes and adopts another dog,not to replace his dying dog, but for a companion to his dying friend. The author has much to say about his feelings of death and life. He writes of the positive energy and joy they add to our lives. Our love for them and their dependence upon us carries us through the hardships we must face in this life. There are three deaths experienced by Mr. Doty in this book, yet he is able to go on living when he thinks he cannot.
Boring, boring, boring. Did I say it was boring? Nothing to see here, move on.
Author jumps all over the place in his lfe time line and at times brings no closure to his thoughts. This makes it hard to fully feel the impact of his struggles to deal with the death of his Dogs and life partner who is died of Aids. I still recommend the book but not for everyone.
