Linda G. (gotbks2) -
I found this book to be a life-changer, keeping in mind that the principles and applications are drawn directly from God's Word. I only wish I had read this book early in my marriage and before I had kids, rather than now when my children are all adults. So humbling to realize that, while we believe we are loving those closest to us, we are often selfishly trying to manipulate and control them in order to get what we want - happiness, acceptance, comfort, etc. The author points out that even behavior that appears good on the outside, like complimenting, doing nice things, or giving gifts, can be done out of selfish motives. The central principle in the book is that, if we are looking to anyone or anything besides God for something we need or want, we have made them an idol and have set ourselves up for disappointment, anger, and grief. So much insight and practical help in this little book. Note: There is a free downloadable study guide for group discussion available on the Elijah Ministries website.
