Helpful Score: 2
As a Sally fan, I really enjoyed reading this. She was very transparent about her early life and what has shaped her. Fascinating.
I don't believe there could have been a better title for this book. Sally Field has always been seeking approval, love, etc while always trying to be the person that someone else needed. She consistently put her own self on hold to fulfill that for other people, including her parents, her loves, etc.
Some of this book was curt, you don't really know the true things that were going on, she only alludes to them. A lot left unsaid, but it is her book, so that is the way it is. It really kind of matches the personality that she portrays in the book.
Some of this book was curt, you don't really know the true things that were going on, she only alludes to them. A lot left unsaid, but it is her book, so that is the way it is. It really kind of matches the personality that she portrays in the book.
In Pieces is a surprisingly introspective book, less a movie-star biography than the story of one troubled woman's journey toward conquering inner demons that seldom showed on screen.
Throughout most of her life, Field sought acceptance and fought feelings that she wouldn't be loved if she wasn't good enough â though she struggled to define what âgood enoughâ was, and how to get there. She found one kind of âgood enoughâ in acting, in the capacity to lose herself in a character â or rather, to develop a character to inhabit. After beginning her career in lightweight television sitcoms, Field grew more serious about understanding and developing her craft, and spent years in various actors' studio groups, eventually breaking away from the bubbly ingénue image with dramatic blockbusters like Sybil and Norma Rae.
Along the way, she acquired and shed several husbands, gave birth to three children whom she reared mostly alone, with the help of her mother, and struggled always to come to terms with a childhood trauma that would haunt her throughout her adult life.
If you're looking for âand then I made this movieâ or insider stories of the industry, or a list of Field's lovers, you won't find them here. And while she does discuss her well-publicized relationship with actor Burt Reynolds, it's more as a journey of growth and self-discovery than it is a kiss-and-tell.
If some of the episodes she describes are difficult to read, if the reader occasionally wants to smack Field upside the head for some of the decisions she made, it's all in the service of honesty and self-discovery. This one is worth the time.
Throughout most of her life, Field sought acceptance and fought feelings that she wouldn't be loved if she wasn't good enough â though she struggled to define what âgood enoughâ was, and how to get there. She found one kind of âgood enoughâ in acting, in the capacity to lose herself in a character â or rather, to develop a character to inhabit. After beginning her career in lightweight television sitcoms, Field grew more serious about understanding and developing her craft, and spent years in various actors' studio groups, eventually breaking away from the bubbly ingénue image with dramatic blockbusters like Sybil and Norma Rae.
Along the way, she acquired and shed several husbands, gave birth to three children whom she reared mostly alone, with the help of her mother, and struggled always to come to terms with a childhood trauma that would haunt her throughout her adult life.
If you're looking for âand then I made this movieâ or insider stories of the industry, or a list of Field's lovers, you won't find them here. And while she does discuss her well-publicized relationship with actor Burt Reynolds, it's more as a journey of growth and self-discovery than it is a kiss-and-tell.
If some of the episodes she describes are difficult to read, if the reader occasionally wants to smack Field upside the head for some of the decisions she made, it's all in the service of honesty and self-discovery. This one is worth the time.
Story of a talented actress with a troubled childhood and relationship with her alcoholic mother. I wouldn't read this one if you are a big Burt Reynolds fan.
The daughter (and stepdaughter) of actors, Sally Field earned her first acting role at seventeen and was quickly on television in shows such as "Gidget" and "The Flying Nun." Those roles showcased Sally's youth and smiling personality. But, behind the scenes, Sally had a tumultuous childhood: her parents divorced when she was young, and her relationships with them and her stepfather were not easy. She found happiness, in many ways, as an actress, but also struggled to find roles that challenged her. In this, her first memoir, she tells the story of her childhood and her early years as an actress.
I listened to the majority of this (and then switched over to the book, I'm weird), and I'm not going to lie: this wasn't always a fun listen for me. This book is sort of depressing and stressful a lot of the time. I will be honest that I didn't know a lot about Sally Field going in--I knew of Gidget, her roles with Burt Reynolds, "Forrest Gump," and honestly, most recently, "Brothers & Sisters." I knew one of her sons was gay, and she supported him.
I did not know her mother was an actress. I did not know that a lot of really bad things happened to her. Seriously, this memoir contains a lot of Sally Field telling us all the awful memories of her childhood, and, later, her early acting days. I'm not saying that's bad--it's truly brave and powerful stuff. But, man, as you're in the car driving 2+ hours to work? It's draining. I felt horrible for her, I felt proud that she'd overcome it, and I felt a little exhausted by it all. I also was appalled by how much she had to deal with (alone) and the state of the acting community for women during that time period.
It did, however, seem to make the beginning of the book go by rather slowly. Or maybe that's just the audio format--this was only the second audiobook I've ever listened to and, coincidentally, the second audiobook I found slow. When Field got to the time period where she became a mom, it picked up for me, perhaps because I could relate better to her. I felt an odd kinship--I was headed off, leaving behind my kids for a work project, and many times, so was she. (Alas, I was doing a rather boring job and she was a famous actress, but hey, you try to find parallels where you can, right?)
No matter what, I applaud her for being unafraid to tell the truth about her life, including admitting her own faults. She supplements her memories with her journal entries, newspaper articles, letters, and more. The result is a very detailed and personal account of her life--up until about "Norma Rae." After that, it glosses over most of her career following that film, which is a little sad for anyone who enjoyed all her subsequent films. This memoir is clearly focused more on Field's personal growth versus a celebrity tell-all. And I get that, I do, but you can't help but wish for a few more juicy details.
In the end, this wasn't an easy read/listen, but it was a good one. I learned a great deal about Field's life, and I admire her so much more as a person now. She had to go through a great deal to get the acting career and overall life she desired. If you enjoy memoirs and autobiographies, you will probably like this one, especially if you like them detailed, versus just focused on celebrity fluff and laughs (though Field is very witty). 4 stars.
I listened to the majority of this (and then switched over to the book, I'm weird), and I'm not going to lie: this wasn't always a fun listen for me. This book is sort of depressing and stressful a lot of the time. I will be honest that I didn't know a lot about Sally Field going in--I knew of Gidget, her roles with Burt Reynolds, "Forrest Gump," and honestly, most recently, "Brothers & Sisters." I knew one of her sons was gay, and she supported him.
I did not know her mother was an actress. I did not know that a lot of really bad things happened to her. Seriously, this memoir contains a lot of Sally Field telling us all the awful memories of her childhood, and, later, her early acting days. I'm not saying that's bad--it's truly brave and powerful stuff. But, man, as you're in the car driving 2+ hours to work? It's draining. I felt horrible for her, I felt proud that she'd overcome it, and I felt a little exhausted by it all. I also was appalled by how much she had to deal with (alone) and the state of the acting community for women during that time period.
It did, however, seem to make the beginning of the book go by rather slowly. Or maybe that's just the audio format--this was only the second audiobook I've ever listened to and, coincidentally, the second audiobook I found slow. When Field got to the time period where she became a mom, it picked up for me, perhaps because I could relate better to her. I felt an odd kinship--I was headed off, leaving behind my kids for a work project, and many times, so was she. (Alas, I was doing a rather boring job and she was a famous actress, but hey, you try to find parallels where you can, right?)
No matter what, I applaud her for being unafraid to tell the truth about her life, including admitting her own faults. She supplements her memories with her journal entries, newspaper articles, letters, and more. The result is a very detailed and personal account of her life--up until about "Norma Rae." After that, it glosses over most of her career following that film, which is a little sad for anyone who enjoyed all her subsequent films. This memoir is clearly focused more on Field's personal growth versus a celebrity tell-all. And I get that, I do, but you can't help but wish for a few more juicy details.
In the end, this wasn't an easy read/listen, but it was a good one. I learned a great deal about Field's life, and I admire her so much more as a person now. She had to go through a great deal to get the acting career and overall life she desired. If you enjoy memoirs and autobiographies, you will probably like this one, especially if you like them detailed, versus just focused on celebrity fluff and laughs (though Field is very witty). 4 stars.
This honest and often emotional memoir covers Sally's dysfunctional childhood, failed marriages and successful television and film career. Although this is an entertainment industry-based memoir, at the heart of her writing were issues and needs that many women continue to have: trying to find a voice, maintaining a career path and balancing a family life while being a single parent, and the constant struggle to maintain relationships with siblings, husbands, children and parents. It was fascinating to read about the making of her shows and films, especially since I had seen pretty much everything that she had ever been in. She is human and this memoir fleshes out her flaws and mistakes. Despite all of that, I still think she is an amazing person and fabulous actress. This is well worth a read or maybe two or three reads.
