I read this book some time ago but as there are not any reviews I figured I would add one. This book came into my life after I came out, but while I was figuring out what it meant to be a femme lesbian in the city. This book made me realize that I was not alone, that coming out did not really change my identity (I already was who I am), and that my life had not been turned upside down. I did not relate to all of the stories, but they have stayed with me and gave me an orientation to the spectrum of women along the Kinsey scale. This is a solid book for someone going through the coming out process.